“I wanted to take my feelings and put them outside of myself” – we chat to tattoo artist Ashes Bardole about her poetry collection

Utah-based tattoo artist Ashes Bardole transforms both skin and soul – and her debut poetry collection, Just a Romantic Collection of Words is out on 28 March. For years, Ashes’ tattoo chair has been more than a place for ink. It has been a space for people to process, heal and be seen. This book is an extension of that. Raw, intimate, unfiltered, it’s for anyone whos ever needed an outlet for their pain or a reminder that they aren’t alone. We chatted to the tattooist and poet ahead of the book’s release…

What made you want to publish your poetry collection?

Initially, I wrote all of this poetry just for me, never expecting it to become what it is today. At its purest form, this was creation for the sake of expression.

I wanted to take my feelings and put them outside of myself, so I could look at them and see them more clearly. To give them a life of their own so I could let go of them. It’s also an homage to all the people in my life who I love, have loved, will love. The change they and I have inspired in my life.

I am publishing this book in honour of my grandmother. She was an artist of many mediums, but a poet first and foremost. For the last two years of her life, she was quite literally on her deathbed, unable to write, her mobility and dexterity deteriorating. While that was happening, I was travelling and the fear of losing her was constant. However it also showed me the love and weight of her presence in my life. She is the reason I started oil painting, the reason so many beautiful parts of myself exist. Without her, I would not be where I am today.

The act of sharing my words came from a place of great love and heaviness, of experiencing the loss of my grandma. Before she passed, I told her I was writing a poetry book for her. She never got to read it, but her eyes lit up with joy when I told her.

What do you love about poetry?

It gets things out of my head and into a different space to see them. A moment of clear self reflection. I spent a lot of my life suppressing and avoiding my emotions because many of them were too big. Poetry gives them a space to be held and processed. I no longer suppress or turn away from my feelings. Poetry releases the stories we assign to the feelings, breaking it down into an abstract/vague thought leaving the raw emotion to be processed. 

There are many times I turn to reading the poetry of others to help me understand my own feelings. Emotions are hard to describe and pinpoint. Often they’re complex and layered. You may be feeling sadness but also relief, or happiness. None of those feelings are wrong. Poetry gives you a language to feel and express the complexity and intricacies of the emotional experience without judgement.

In addition, reading poetry gives a sense of not being alone. Someone else somewhere has felt this similar thing, even if the details of the experience are different. The abstraction of poetry allows the connection of two strangers through shared emotional complexities that transcend specifics of language.

Poetry doesn’t have to be pretty or rhyme or follow specific rules – it is pure expression. 

Why do you think people often spill their innermost thoughts while they are getting tattooed?

Part of this puzzle is being open to holding that space for others, as the artist, that really allows people to open up. Not to mention you spend hours with each other. They come in as strangers who have to inherently trust you because you are not only about to cause them pain — which is incredibly vulnerable — but also mark and alter their appearance forever. There are not many situations in which these conditions exist. 

As an artist you also immediately skip the small talk. Additionally, I feel such curiosity and compassion for people, and this is the perfect environment to truly see another person without the filters they usually project. Once you are in physical pain, the facade you put up via social media or in public is immediately gone. Clients must let go of the extra mental work to be able to process the physical pain as it is happening. There’s no room to hide.

Tattooing can be a space of no judgement. The job of the artist is to witness that space your client is in and guide the experience. There have been times where I have asked just the perfect question that has allowed the space for a client to open up about some of the most difficult experiences in their life.

Pain is such a key player in this. Being in pain of your own choosing can give a sense of control. There is research that suggests the brain processes physical and emotional pain through similar neural pathways. This creates an opening and trigger point of connection within the brain allowing someone to share the things that have happened to them.

Also being in pain while being able to talk about pain is so cathartic. When I was getting my palms tattooed, it hurt so badly that I started to cry not just about the pain I was actively experiencing, but about every painful thing that had ever happened to me. It was a pain that transcended a physical space to allow for an emotional space to come forward. Whether a client chooses to talk about it or not, this process happens for everyone to an extent. 

Why are tattoos so powerful in helping people heal?

The brain is an incredible thing and it also has specific needs to be met in order to process trauma. 1.)  to be physically present in your body and in the moment and 2.) to have mental and emotional safety.

Many of us dissociate from our lives and from our physical form. I, for many years, ran away from my body and the pain I was feeling because of emotional trauma and chronic illness. When you leave your body like this, it makes it hard to be able to process the things that have happened to you. Your brain does not know the difference between a thought and perceivable reality. Thus, many people who experience PTSD are not grounded in current reality to realise that a flashback is just that, a past moment. They then experience that memory as if it is happening in real time causing reoccurring trauma. Which is why it is so necessary to be aware and grounded.

Many people turn to yoga, exercise, meditation to ground themselves in reality. However, tattooing bypasses that effort and forces you into your body. You cannot escape the feeling of getting tattooed. There is no other sensation in time or space that feels like getting a tattoo, so you could not possibly think you are anywhere else. It is the anchor point to the here and now, and that anchor is being experienced through your physical body. 

The second part of this is mental and emotional safety. As a tattoo artist you have the opportunity to create that space. You have complete control in how you engage with your clients — how you speak, how you act, how you set up and guide the experience. Something as simple as checking in with a client during a procedure. Getting them water, and food. Making sure their basic needs are met so that they sit their best for the tattoo so you can do your best work. Those things are enough to fulfil that second requirement. 

Personally, I cannot and do not want to separate this spiritual, transcendent space from tattooing. They belong together. Which is  why I believe it’s important as a tattoo artist to go to therapy and resolve your own traumas so you can be a mirror and a listener without projecting your own traumas on to the client. You are giving them the space to express whatever they need to in that moment. 

Do you think the art of tattooing and writing complement one another?

I feel that as an artist you cannot separate any art from another. All art forms complement each other. They are all an extension of ourselves, just different expressions of that extension.

The vulnerability my clients share with me within a tattoo space is being reciprocated through the form of poetry. Where I get to share my vulnerability with clients in a safe space. Themes that are outlined within the poetry book are shared within the tattoo space as well, there is so much crossover between the two. 

My artwork in any medium draws inspiration from each other and also from my experiences in life. Those experiences help me create and also connect to other people. All of it is growth, all of it is expression, and the different vacillations of these invite different people to interact with me and with others in different ways.

Just a Romantic Collection of Words will be released on 28th March 2025, through shop.ashesbardole.com

Her tattoo world: Stories & Ink’s Barbara Crane on her tattoo collection and new tattoo healing


We absolutely love independent tattoo skincare brand Stories & Ink and everything they stand for aligns with our vibe over here at Things & Ink. The Stories & Ink range has been specially created for people with tattoos, the products nourish, define and protect tattooed skin – from aftercare cream and gentle foam cleanser for freshly inked skin to vibrancy serums and exfoliating wash to inject some life back into older tattoos.

We caught up with Stories & Ink Creative Content Manager, Barbara Crane – who’s 26 years old and lives in Latvia – to find out her top tips for dealing with that dreaded new tattoo itch and her fave S&I products for new tattoo healing. Barbara’s a tattoo collector, too, of course, and her collection of blackwork tattoos is out of this world…

Barbara is the creative content manager for Stories & Ink skincare

What made you fall in love with tattoos? Do you remember when it was?
I was about six or seven years old, I think. The idea of having permanent art that’s all over your skin – and goes everywhere with you – fascinated me. When I was a child, I also loved art and drawing. I thought the idea of having drawings on your skin was amaaazzzing and I couldn’t wait to cover myself in art.

Do you enjoy the process of getting tattooed?
I would say 50/50. I do love going to the tattoo studio, talking to tattoo artists, and going through the whole process – except the pain of actually getting tattooed, of course. Yes, it is a part of the process and, to some degree, I do like it, but I don’t know what it is – age or something else – but it does feel like every next tattoo is more painful than the last. My tolerance is a lot lower than it used to be. Or maybe it just means that I keep moving to more and more painful places on my body.

The top half of Barbara’s body has been tattooed by Emīls Salmiņš

What’s your top tips for the healing process?
Hmm, I’d say leaving the healing tattoo alone as much as possible. Of course, cleaning it and applying aftercare cream when needed. But don’t go into the sun, don’t do any crazy activities, don’t pick at it and drink a lot of water. Treat it almost like a wound and just let it heal. Then the healing process happens a lot faster.

Do you have a fave Stories & Ink product? Why?
Oof, always hard to pick one. I am totally a fan of the Daily Moisturiser and the Vibrancy Serum, for sure! They both smell so amazing and nothing makes my tattoos come back to life and glow like these two products do!

How do you cope with the new tattoo itch?
Ha! Good question. I didn’t experience it that much in the past, but the last few tattoos I got, it came to bite me in the butt. I don’t scratch it – of course. Maybe give it a light tap with my palm, if it is unbearable. But if I do feel an itchy sensation, it just means that the spot is dry and I apply a little of the Stories & Ink Aftercare Cream and that usually does the trick. 

Any new tattoo plans?
I have a bunch, but first I’d love to finish my massive back piece. Later I’d like to get my fingers tattooed and the insides of my ears. 

What’s your coping tactics to deal with long sessions?
Honestly, numbing cream. I know people debate about it, but I don’t understand why. Some say “you should earn the tattoo” but I say that is just toxic masculinity at it’s finest. A bit of a hot take, I know. But it’s true. If it will be a long session and in a spot that’s very sensitive and painful, make it easier for you and for the artist. If the area is numb or has less sensations than normal then you are having a breeze and the artist can focus on doing their work without you whining and twitching and moving around from the pain. Other coping tactics would be music or watching videos on my phone. Really distracts my brain well. 

What do you love most about working at Stories & Ink?

I’ve been a freelancer for a long time and everything always felt so hectic, working at S&I has brought so much structure in to my work life and I love it as I am a big planner myself. Also being a huge tattoo enthusiast, I feel like I have found my place – finally. I used to think I would be a tattoo artist as I thought that was the only job I could have in the tattoo industry, but I am glad I was wrong. I love how welcoming, passionate and understanding the team is. I feel so lucky to be a part of such an amazing, growing and future-thinking company that aims to share the right messages about tattoos, tattooed people and tattoo care – and so much more.

Check out the full range of Stories & Ink products in their shop: storiesandink.com, and give them a follow on their Instagram, @storiesandinkskincare

Tattoo Aftercare: Salix Moon Apothecary

At Things & Ink we’re always looking for new products to help heal our new tattoos, especially if the ingredients are natural and created by an independent maker. Louise founder of Salix Moon Apothecary kindly sent us some of her Achilles Charm botanical healing salve to try. Read on to find out a bit more about Louise and her tattoo balm…

Louise is a graphic design graduate and aspiring herbalist living by the sea with her partner and two chinchillas. She explains how “Salix Moon Apothecary was born out of my love and respect of the natural world and a need to connect and experiment with it. It was a way of getting creative with nature, combining my love of herbs with my love of design and my urge to create. All of the packaging and illustrations are designed and hand drawn by myself. My partner Max is also a big part of the business, we come up with the recipes and make the products together.”

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“I am fascinated by plant medicine and love to go foraging for herbs for my herbal first aid kit and little home-apothecary. I’m very interested by our ancient ways, folklore and the history of our use of medicinal plants and I’m working on some new products inspired by traditional western herbalism/remedies, with herbs used by our ancestors. I recently started studying Herbal Medicine, which has reinforced my path. I hope one day to become a medical herbalist.”

Louise continues to tell us how she is “passionate about leading a sustainable and ethical lifestyle and I try to reflect that in my products and business ethics. I try and source my essential oils and carrier oils from farms in the UK wherever possible to try and reduce our carbon footprint. Our labels are paper based and compostable and biodegradable and so is our packing material. All my products are in glass bottles and you can choose either an aluminium cap, pipette or spray closure (depending on the product). I encourage customers to re-use their pipette/spray top and go for the aluminium cap for future purchases as they are more easily recycled.”

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What is Achilles Charm tattoo salve? 

Made with a combination of cold pressed and unrefined plantain infused organic Jojoba Oil, Calendula infused organic Sunflower Oil*, organic Yarrow infused organic Sunflower Oil, organic Virgin Rosehip Seed Oil, Organic Beeswax and naturally derived Vitamin E, the balm is:

  • Paraben free
  • Sulfate free
  • Cruelty free
  • Preservative free
  • 100% natural
  • Unscented
  • Suitable for sensitive skin

Achilles Charm contains a magical blend of potent herbs that Louise and Max have macerated in organic botanical oils for many weeks to slowly extract their soothing and nourishing properties. Each herb and oil has been carefully chosen for their nourishing compounds and medicinal properties that help to soothe and protect, promote skin repair and tissue regeneration.

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A highly moisturising and soothing ointment for the skin, this salve is the perfect addition to your herbal first aid kit, it can be applied to bites, stings, scrapes, minor cuts, dry itchy skin conditions and it is our absolute go-to for tattoo aftercare.

As directed our editor Rosie massaged a thin layer of salve directly onto the skin to help soothe, soften and protect her new tattoo. This is what she had to say:

I absolutely loved this tattoo healing balm, not only is it made from natural ingredients and cruelty free, it also has a beautiful natural scent. The texture is ideal for new tattoos as it just melts into the skin like a dream. I’ve been using it on my husband’s new tattoos as well and he loves it too! It’s so nice to have tattoo care that is ethical with recyclable packaging that also supports an independent maker. I also like to use Achilles Charm on my face as a night oil, and I always wake up with beautifully soft nourished skin.

 

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Rosie using Achilles Charm on her new tattoo

Be sure to follow Salix Moon Apothecary on Instagram or Facebook for more plant magic and you can shop the full range of plant based products on Etsy here

Powder Beauty Boutique in Brighton

We had a fun Things&Ink outing to Brighton back in February for Brighton Tattoo Convention. While we were there, we couldn’t resist getting our nails done at the gorgeous Power Beauty Boutique.

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Editors Rosalie Hurr and Alice Snape got their nails did at Powder Beauty Boutique

image2 (1)Behind a discreet door on Duke Street, you will climb some stairs and enter a little haven with warm and welcoming therapists who can do anything from nail art and bikini waxes to make-up and micro-blading.

Excitingly, they now have a room to rent that would suit a professional body piercer or tattoo artist. They already have a licence from the council in place, so are looking for someone who is self-employed to rent the space. We can’t wait to pay them a visit again once they find someone… especially as the room looks like a perfect – and private – sanctuary to get pierced or tattooed in… Just look!

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If you’re interested in renting the room either on a part-time or full-time basis, contact Rachel at rachel@powderbeauty.co.uk or give her a call 07899884170. Visit powderbeauty.co.uk, for more information. Powder Beauty Boutique is an established salon with a large client base situated in the heart of Brighton’s city centre. 

 

Alice Nicholls: An79 Tattoo Balm

Alice Nicholls is a tattoo artist, permanent cosmetic specialist and creator of An79, a vegan friendly tattoo aftercare balm. Specially formulated to complement her work and cosmetic artistry, An79 balm has highly moisturising properties to keep new tattoos hydrated and protected. Resulting in a fully healed tattoo and the added bonus of super soft skin. The cruelty free and homemade balm consists of all natural ingredients, and it features a relaxing mild lavender scent and is gentle on sensitive skin.

Our editor, Rosie tried some on her latest handpoked cat tattoo created by artist Lydia Amor, this is what she had to say:

I loved how easily I could apply the balm to my skin, it seemed to melt into my hands. It soaked in really quickly and wasn’t at all sticky to touch. I couldn’t really smell the lavender which was a shame, but I’ll be using An79 again to heal some of my newer tattoos for sure.

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Rosie’s leaping cat freshly done at Black Market Tattoo, Leicester

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Rosie’s tattoo with balm added

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Rosie’s happy little healed kitty

You can buy your own pot of An79 balm here. Let us know what you think!